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beware of women who do not hide their age_oscar wilde

“You look so pretty, for your age.”

After I finished hearing my knees creak in the silence that followed, I thanked the fine person, but it is those three little words – for your age – that kind of take the wind out of your sails.  So, on behalf of those of us who have accumulated hard-won life experience, and built more character than we can use in one lifetime, I will tell you how much I appreciate a woman of “a certain age.”

A real woman is not afraid to be honest or talk openly about the battle scars that she has earned along the way. Whether funny or sad, the scars add up and we keep going, adding even more stories and sighs than we ever thought possible.  We no longer have the patience for the drama or knocks to our self-esteem because we know who we are, inside and out, and are true survivors.

Real women of a certain age are able to judge people on their own merits without having to cyber stalk them. We have learned to assess a situation, or person, and to trust our intuition.  We don’t need to speak just to be heard.  If someone is genuinely listening, we can have a great conversation.  Otherwise, a strong woman leaves the superficial behind; our time and peace of mind is too precious.

We acknowledge that while we have made many mistakes, we have done the very best we could at the time, and continue to grow and improve. In my opinion, one of the signs of a strong mentally mature and confident woman is when she stops seeing other women as competition and considers how to align and mentor instead.  When the hard choices have to be made, and no one else will accept the responsibility, a strong woman will step up.

I love a real woman who is honest, open, loyal, and able to laugh out loud. Acceptance through self-awareness and experience is what makes a woman of a certain age a joy to behold ~ and the best kind of friend or colleague to cultivate.

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Thanks for stopping by!  I hope that you enjoy your visit.

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5 Comments

  1. ok, I love this and want to know when you are coming fro coffee???? ❤ ❤

    • You are awesome!! I am not headed to NY as soon as I thought I was…..but you are the best!

  2. Loved it! Thanks for sharing these insightful thoughts! 🙂 Do check this new blog post. https://wordpress.com/post/thequirkysapien.wordpress.com/39

  3. I agree on all accounts. I always prefer spending time with those of any gender who have become comfortable with themselves, especially in accepting our inevitable demise. A sense keen sense of humor is a must, and those of a certain age are also more likely to tell a better tale because theyve had more adventures in this crazy world of ours.


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