If there is a task to be done, it seems that the same personalities offer their help again and again. It is the survivors that do what must be done. They have lived through it, and in their empathy, move forward knowing that they have done it and can keep going.
I spent the weekend with my siblings. One took charge when a stranger wandered into the middle of a child’s group, guiding away the individual to neutral ground. Another stepped in to the middle of a crisis, doing the most unpleasant of tasks, because it had to be done despite the pain.
Is it inner strength or confidence? Perhaps, it is the remnant of how we were raised. We operate with conviction in the midst of a crisis. Resolving an issue is first and foremost, then can be debated later. When challenged with life issues, we have witnessed, and risen up, to do that which must be done for someone else’s physical well-being, and dealt with our own emotions later. We were raised with a sense of urgency and responsibility that I miss seeing around me; I find it to be inspiring.
There are plenty who like to take credit, but few that will roll up their sleeves. That is the difference that separates leaders from managers and individuals from the collective.
To me, being tenacious in the face of challenges, is what gets the job done. Whether personally or professionally, taking the first step is what moves it along. There will be many doubts, and doubters, that will deconstruct after the fact, but it is an act of strength to care enough to make a difference.
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